Reinventing Yourself

Why I Feel Better at 58 than I Did at 38

Getting to the Heart—or Foot—of the Matter

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Sure Dave, you might be saying. How is that even possible? In your 30s, your body parts still work, but by the time you hit your late 50s? Fugetaboutit! Joints creak or click, bones ache, and nothing works the way it's supposed to.

Well, I'm glad you asked. Here's the short answer for how it was possible:  by taking control of my health.

Yuck, you might be thinking. Someone else who's going to tell me to lose weight and drink more water!

Nope, not me—I'm not going to tell you to do anything since I'm not a doctor and don't have other related qualifications to do so. But I am going to tell you what has worked for me. Think of it as food for thought. If anything I say motivates you to try something new, be sure to consult your doctor or other qualified healthcare provider before doing so.

Taking Control of My Health, Step 1

I have had a growing list of health issues, not to mention some concerns based on my family history. My existing conditions have included cholesterol so high that I had to take a statin drug daily. I also have gout and peripheral neuropathyboth of which led to chronic foot pain. Further (and probably most concerning), I am the only member of my family of origin who has not had a cancer diagnosis, so that threat has been looming on my horizon as well. Not far behind those on the concern scale were heart disease and dementia. 

Not exactly a cheery list.

What was I to do?

Default Answer:  Nothing

For a lot of years, my answer was, basically, nothing. Oh, I did take some medications, and occasionally would make half-hearted attempts at dealing with some chronic conditions. But nothing ever very serious or lasting.

Why do I say this?

To point out that just like you, I didn't have any secret reserve of superhuman resolve. So if I can make meaningful and lasting changes in my life, you can too.

Before the Beginning

Before jumping into the details, let me refer back to something I mentioned in the first article in this series. It seems like the older we get, the more attached we become to our way of doing things. "Set in our ways" is a polite and mild way of saying it.

But why is that? Are those ways always the most efficient process to follow to achieve your desired outcomes? Probably not. And when exactly did you stop considering new ways of doing things? Was it a certain age? Because if you think about the way you do the things you do, at one point in your life, the way you do somethinganythingnow was probably new and different from the way you used to do it. 

Technology has advanced so much in our lifetimes that there are countless examples to choose from, but an easy one that everyone can probably relate to is the way you make phone calls. That is, if you even use your phone to make calls anymore (I think my kids are surprised when I remind them that making calls was the original purpose of a phone). Depending on how old you are, you may remember picking up a phone and asking an operator to connect your line to that of the family you wanted to speak with. While I don't go back quite that far, I do remember having only a single telephone line for our family. When my sister would talk to friends or boyfriends for hours, that would tie up our phone line for the entire time (and I provided her the same inconvenience). No opportunity to leave a voicemail or send a text. Only an annoying busy signal to greet and irritate prospective callers.

Would you give up the superphone / supercomputer you probably carry in your pocket today in exchange for one of those outdated ways of making a phone call?

I certainly don't mean to say that a new way of doing something is always better. But most of the time it's at least worth considering, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Or maybe especially if it makes you uncomfortablestepping outside your comfort zone can help keep your mind sharp. More on that in future posts on brain health.

Anyway, I'll step down from my lofty soap box and end this section with a modification to a Henry Ford quote:  "Whether you think you're too old to try new things, or you're not too old to try new things, you're right."

Start with the Possible

In order to tackle the impossible, you first have to achieve the possible. There are a couple of timeless sayings that convey this idea in different ways:

"The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step." - Chinese proverb originating with Lao Tzu

"There is only one way to eat an elephant:  a bite at a time." - Desmond Tutu

If you'll pardon the pun, the first step in my journey began with taking care of my feet. 

Why Bother?

My feet transport me to the best this life has to offer. I live in Colorado, so hiking carries me into glorious sunshine, up steep trails with spectacular panoramic vistas of 14ers across the Rocky Mountains ("14ers" refers to mountains whose peak exceeds 14,000 feet). Hiking enables me to drink in deep breaths of the freshest scent I know:  a pine forest after an afternoon rain. Hiking takes me to meandering streams and rushing rivers. Lakes rippling in the breeze. Aspen forests whispering with the wind. Gigantic rock formations. Meadows adorned with wildflowers of a thousand different hues. All these and more decorate my trails as my feet carry me step after step, mile after scenic mile.

My feet are my passport, too. I love traveling, and when I do, I try to walk around as much as possible in the locale I'm visiting. I enjoy taking in the sounds, the smellssome delicious and some disturbing, but all part of seizing the moment. I appreciate the sights, too, and since photography is another passion of mine, I take pictures of everything (just ask my wife and kids, or anyone who has ever traveled with me!).

I've strolled along the Seine River, finally understanding why poets and artists and lovers are drawn to Paris. Walking along the Hudson River in New York City, I've been surprised by the wealth of fauna and floraincluding hundreds of thousands of tulips and many other vibrant flowers tucked in so many unexpected places. I have wandered along beaches in Hawaii, California, Florida, North Carolina, among many other destinations. I cherish feeling the sand between my toes, fixing my gaze on the endless horizon, allowing the waves to restore peace to my soul. This is what my feet enable me to do.

The reason I share these thoughts is because of the thing they all have in common:  I have to use my feet to get around.

And all of them were becoming increasingly challenging given the amount of chronic foot pain I was enduringespecially in my toes, which were searing in pain so much that I couldn't even stand to have anyone touch them. So I started wondering, What, if anythingshort of giving up on these things I love to docan I do to reduce, or even eliminate, that constant pain?

Well, I asked my doctor, and he recommended me to a Podiatrist. So off I went to see what I could find out.

Two Useful Things I Learned & One Thing I Figured Out Myself

Here are the two best things I gained from my visit to the foot doc, which started me down the path toward reducing the constant pain in my feet:

Best Walking, Hiking, & Running Shoes Ever

The first gem the doc suggested was to try shoes made by Hoka One One, which he said were particularly good for people with chronic foot pain, especially in their toes. In case you decide to go to a shoe store to look for them, note that they are not pronounced like you'd think; "One" is pronounced "oh-nay".

I had never heard of them, but I have friends who are avid runners, and they agreed with the doc's recommendation. I decided to give them a try. They are fantastic! Of their walking/running shoes, I have tried both the Rincon 2 as well as the Challenger ATR 5. I also got a pair of their Speedgoat 4 GTX hiking shoes, which are also really great. I have tried shoes from many of the top brands, and I highly recommend any of these choices from Hoka One One.

Stretching

This recommendation was a little surprising, but he said that my Achilles tendons and calf muscles were really tight, which was causing my feet to get pushed forward in my shoes. He recommended that I do the runner's stretch daily. 

Since I was also experiencing pain in my toes, I found that if I modified the stretch slightly, I could also ease some of the toe pain at the same time. Instead of having my "off foot" (the one opposite the leg I'm stretching) flat on the ground, I have just the ball of that foot on the ground, lifting the heel and the rest of that foot off the ground.

In order to remember to make this odd-looking but effective stretch part of my daily routine, I had to turn it into a habit by stacking it on top of a habit I'm already doing. I know this sounds really weird (even stranger than the stretch itself), but I discovered I could do this very effective stretch while I'm brushing my teeth, leaning up against the counter. (For more on using habit stacking to add to your list of good habit, refer to the awesome book, Atomic Habits, by James Clear.)

My toothbrush has a timer that goes off every 30 seconds during the 2 minutes of toothbrushing time, so I switch legs each time the timer goes off, giving me 2 sets of stretches for each leg. 

Yes, very bizarre, but this technique has really helped alleviate my foot pain as well. It has also provided the added benefit of keeping me from facing any other issues with Achilles tendonitis (which my wife has had, so I've seen first-hand how painful it can be).

As far as the thing I figured out for myself, it was how much pain can result from little tiny growths that appear in odd places on your feet. For me, it was a corn that had grown between 2 of my toes. I wasn't sure how much that little thing could be directly related to my foot pain, but I decided to go after it anywayI wanted to attack anything that could be hurting my feet!

After doing some research, I decided to try ComfortZone's liquid corn & callus remover. This treatment entailed putting a few drops on the weird little thing between my toes, then applying one of the small "donut" cushions that came with the drops. After about a week, the corn just dried up and fell off. Fortunately, it left my toes intact. And wouldn't you know it? The pain I had been experiencing in that foot reduced dramatically!

What's the Verdict?

It has been over two years since I began this part of my journey to improve my health, and I'm excited to report that my feet are feeling WAY better today than they did when I started. I wouldn't go so far as to say that I'm completely healed since my toes are still fairly sensitive to the touch, but I have definitely come a long way. Maybe the best way of describing it is to say that my feet are no longer an impediment to my hiking, fitness walking, or any of the other ambulatory activities I enjoy.

So all in all, I'd say my first step on this journey was a success!

What's Your First Step?

Based on my experience, I challenge you to pick one thing about yourself that you want to improveit could be a health issue, a personality trait, or anythingand write down some things you could do to make it better. Visualize how your life will improve once you have tackled that issue.

Then pick one of those actions and start doing it. In some cases, you may want to seek advice from a qualified medical professional or someone who is otherwise an expert in the area you want to improve. But whatever the situation, you should start with small, achievable steps. Find ways to turn those into positive habits. Celebrate small victories to help yourself build momentum. 

What you do each day defines who you will become. Do today what you want to be tomorrow.

One thing is certain:  you are never too old to take control of your health, unless you convince yourself that you are.

And why would you want to do that??

Our Next Step

As I mentioned at the start of this article, this time I have described the first step in my journey to take control of my health. Stay tuned next time, when I'll talk about the next step in my "Why I Feel Better at 58 than I Did at 38" process. Until then, happy healing!

4 Comments

  1. Dave

    This is good advice. i watched you use it to help yourself … i watched it happen!!!
    I remember I patted your foot once as i walked by and you grimaced with pain. You stuck to your regimen and it worked.
    You know my age and the restrictions i have put on my activities but i am going to pick a concern and try your method of treating it. Thanks for the motivation.

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